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Infidelity Doesn't Have to Mean the End of Your Marriage
Learn How You Can Bounce Back From Betrayal To Make Your Marriage Better, Stronger And More Fulfilling…
From The Desk Of Kajay Williams
Dear Friend,
The agony and trauma of betrayal affects both men and women across all countries, cultures, religions and ethnic backgrounds. All marriages are vulnerable to infidelity, even the happiest marriages.
Yes, even my own.
When my wife betrayed me I was stunned to say the least. I had no idea what to do, where to turn or who to talk to.
I had a million emotions, images, thoughts and questions racing through my mind all at once.
I was living my worst nightmare and was trying to make sense of the current chaos and crisis that suddenly entered my life.
Before you can heal and recover, it is important to realize that infidelity is complicated and that not all cases of betrayal are the same.
What you are going through right now is probably the worst phase of your life, but there is hope.
Infidelity is a crisis, but it can also be a golden opportunity for you to start afresh and try to make your relationship better than it ever was before.
Once I was able to clear my head a bit, I realized that I needed to find some direction - fast.
I went on a quest for knowledge, scouring the Internet and library for as much information on affairs that I could find. I had some success and did find some helpful materials, but I needed more.
I was still confused and didn't really understand what was going on or what to do next.
I needed expert help!
Perhaps you are feeling the same way.
One thing I did learn though, is that infidelity is often a symptom of a larger problem in a marriage.
And contrary to popular belief, experts say that many couples survive infidelity. They not only survive, but thrive after the betrayal because often these couples tend to make their marriage a priority, making a conscious effort to work on their relationship in an effort to avoid the pain, agony and humiliation of the affair.
What you need now is help and guidance from experts who know the ins and outs of infidelity.
And just to help people like you, I have interviewed some of the top infidelity experts to shed light on and provide guidance on the most common questions and problems faced by couples struggling with infidelity.
Here are some of the experts that I have interviewed.
Dr. Pat Love
Dr. Pat Love is a Distinguished professor, Certified Love Educator and has appeared numerous times on Oprah, The Today Show and CNN. For more than twenty-five years, she has contributed to relationship education and personal development through her books, articles, training programs, speaking and media appearances. She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, an Approved Supervisor in AAMFT, and a past president of the International Association for Marriage and Family Counseling.
Listen to a snippet of interview with Dr. Pat Love below
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Dr. Sue Johnson
Sue Johnson is Director of the International Center for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy and Distinguished Research Professor at Alliant University in San Diego, California as well as Professor of Clinical Psychology at the University of Ottawa, Canada. She has received numerous honors for her work, including the Outstanding Contribution to the Field of Couple and Family Therapy Award from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and the Research in Family Therapy Award from the American Family Therapy Academy. She is also the author of the bestselling book Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations For a Lifetime of Love published by Little Brown
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Dr. Jane Greer
Dr. Jane Greer is a nationally renowned relationship expert, marriage and family therapist, blogger, author, and radio host. She is creator of SHRINK WRAP WITH DR. JANE GREER, a media commentary on what we can learn from the trials and triumphs of celebrity relationships as seen in Psychology Today, Huffington Post, Metro, and on The Daily Buzz nationally syndicated morning show. She is a regular contributor to Galtime, Cupid’s Pulse and her “Doctor On Call” radio show features the popular call-in segment “Let’s Talk Sex”. Dr. Greer’s newest book, What About Me? Stop Selfishness From Ruining Your Relationship, is available nationwide.
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Dave Carder
Dave is an author, pastor and one of the leading experts in affair recovery and prevention. He has helped many couples save their marriage after an affair. He has done training for the Army and Navy as well as doing the first season premier and final of Unfaithful, a special TV presentation on the Oprah Winfrey network. Dave holds graduate degrees in Biblical Literature and in Marital and Family Therapy as well as the Michigan Limited License in Psychology and the Marriage and Family Therapy license in California. His publishing credits include Torn Asunder: Recovering From Extramarital Affairs and Close Calls: What Adulterers Want You to Know About Protecting Your Marriage?
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Karla Downing
Karla Downing offers relationship help as a speaker, author, Bible study teacher and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Her books include 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages, When Love Hurts: 10 Principles to Transform Difficult Relationships, and The Truth in the Mirror: A Guide to Healthy Self-Image. Karla’s passion is to see individuals, marriages, and families set free from the chains of dysfunction, misunderstanding, and emotional pain personally and relationally. Her messages provide practical and biblical truths that bring balance and clarity to life and relationship issues.
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Dr. Lorie Teagno
Dr. Lorie Teagno is a licensed clinical psychologist who has been practicing with couples, families and individuals for more than 30 years. She is co-author of Intimacy after Infidelity with her colleague, Dr. Steve D. Solomon. Together they have been training mental health professionals for more than 20 years in their unique approach to couples therapy, Intimacy Therapy. Besides their book, they have been featured on numerous radio and television interviews, authored articles and book chapters and created an online Intimacy Therapy course.
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Dr. Steven D. Solomon
Dr. Steven D. Solomon is a marriage friendly therapist committed to supporting clients in their relationships, whether that be by healing them, rebuilding them or enhancing them. He has been in private practice in San Diego and La Jolla, California for more than 25 years.
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Dr. Barbara Steffens
Dr. Steffens specializes in helping women recover from sexual betrayal and is a sought after speaker and presenter on special issues related to partners of sexual addicts. Speaking at international and national conferences on sexual addiction, and educating her peers on the traumatic effects disclosure of this addiction has on the partner, she is a recognized expert in this field.
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Dr. Dennis Ortman
Dr. Dennis Ortman is a psychologist in private practice specializing in the treatment of those with emotional problems and addictions. He has graduate degrees in psychology and theology and joins both traditions in his writing and therapeutic work. He has extensive experience working with those with addictions and with those struggling with issues on the border between psychology and spirituality.
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Dr. Eileen Borris
Since 1985 Dr. Borris has worked as a clinical psychologist in private practice. She is the Director of the Arizona Center for Transformational Healing where she works with individuals and couples dealing with relationship difficulties. Her work focuses on the emotional pain associated with troubled relationships including the betrayal of intimate marital relationships. Dr. Borris has written extensively on forgiveness and the healing of painful emotions including her book Finding Forgiveness: A 7 Step Program for Letting Go of Anger and Bitterness published by McGraw-Hill. She conducts “Finding Forgiveness” workshops, in which people are enabled to make better decisions from the place of understanding and wisdom rather than emotional pain.
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Dr. Lisa Firestone
Dr. Lisa Firestone is a clinical psychologist, Director of Research and Education at the Glendon Association and the Senior Editor of Psychalive.org. Dr. Firestone has published numerous peer reviewed articles, and is the co-author of many books including Sex and Love in Intimate Relationships (APA Books, 2006), Conquer Your Critical Inner Voice (New Harbinger, 2002), Creating a Life of Meaning and Compassion: The Wisdom of Psychotherapy (APA Books, 2003) and most recently The Self Under Siege: A Therapeutic Model for Differentiation (Routledge, 2012). Dr. Firestone has a private practice in Santa Barbara, CA where she works with individuals, couples and consults with other professionals on high risk patients.
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Sabrina Walters
Sabrina Walters is a licensed marriage and family therapist, adjunct professor for George Fox University and has worked with a wide variety of clients, from individuals in major life transitions, to couples in crisis to youth and families facing issues of addiction. Alongside her private practice, Sabrina and her husband Eric Walters lead couples in a two day conference to enhance relationships through understanding their core values, conflict strategies and building a vision for their relationship.
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Alyssa Siegel
Alyssa Siegel is a licensed professional counselor. While she generally operates from a relational perspective, she often incorporates humanistic, psychodynamic, CBT, and mindfulness approaches, meeting each client where they are and blending support with challenge.
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Kristine Gottesman
Kristine Gottesman is a Marriage and Family Therapist Intern offering psychotherapy and counseling for individuals, couples, and families. She has experience working with a wide range of individual clients facing various challenges, such as stress and anxiety, depression, relationship issues, grief and loss, and life transitions.
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Helen Arabanos
Helen Arabanos is an internationally recognized Feng Shui Practitioner and was the Former Director of the LA Chapter of the International Feng Shui Guild. Helen has taught Feng Shui at the Institute of Psycho-Structural Balancing in Culver City, California and has given many introductory seminars at Whole Foods Market in Thousand Oaks, Santa Monica and Woodland Hills, CA as well as other organizations and charities.
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Dana Vince
Dana Vince is a licensed Professional Counselor practicing in the Knoxville area of Tennessee. She is interested in helping couples and families learn how to communicate in ways that nurture one another and form deeper bonds in their relationships.
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Renee Segal
Renee Segal is a marriage and family therapist, trained in Emotion Focused Couples Therapy, one of only two methods of couples therapy that has been proven to work, even in extremely distressed couples. She works with individual clients by understanding how a person relates to others based on the patterns learned in their most significant relationship experiences; usually their relationship with their parents.
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Dr. Paul J. Zak
Paul J. Zak is the founding Director of the Center for Neuroeconomics Studies and Professor of Economics, Psychology and Management at Claremont Graduate University and the author of The Moral Molecule: The Source of Love and Prosperity. Zak also serves as Professor of Neurology at Loma Linda University Medical Center. A featured TED speaker in 2011, Zak has also appeared on: Good Morning America, Dr. Phil, Fox & Friends, ABC Evening News, NOVA Science Now, NPR, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Time, The Economist, Scientific American, Fast Company, Forbes, and many others.
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All in all, you are getting well over 200 years of rich, invaluable, practical affair recovery and marriage advice from more than 30 top experts in these interviews.
We have all heard the saying that "knowledge is power" and from these interviews you will learn...
- What the different types of infidelity are
- What type of infidelity is most damaging to marriage and most difficult to recover from
- How to know if your spouse is cheating on you and what to do when you suspect your spouse is cheating on you
- Should you snoop or discuss your concerns with your spouse openly and how to confront your unfaithful spouse
- What to do when your spouse refuses to end the affair
- If you should try to save your marriage or opt for a separation after infidelity
- How to heal after infidelity and then how to rebuild your marriage
- Why forgiveness is key to healing and rebuilding your marriage
- How to rebuild trust after infidelity
- How to deal with post infidelity triggers
- How to handle children during and after infidelity
- How to restore intimacy after infidelity
- And much, much more…
Whether you suspect your partner or spouse is cheating on you or whether you have just discovered your spouse’s affair or whether you are wondering if you want to save your marriage or opt for separation after an affair or whether you want to redefine the boundaries of your relationship or marriage to make sure you and your partner are on the same page, you need to hear from these experts.
Dr. Robert Huizenga, Break Free From the Affair
Here's what you get with the program...
I have created a membership dashboard where you will have exclusive access to the following:
- 33 interviews with leading relationship experts on various topics related to infidelity, relationships and marriage. These interviews alone represent over 30 hours of expert advice and knowledge.
- 3 Bonus interview transcripts with therapist Carolyn Tucker and psychotherapists Sherry Osadchey and Allison Cohen
- Dozens of additional audios, videos and articles focused on affair recovery and healing
- Numerous other resources addressing topics such as Emotional Affairs, Lying and Deception, Porn and Sex Addiction, Preventing Infidelity, Rebuilding after an Affair, Strengthening Your Marriage, and more.
Let me be honest with you. I am not a therapist or a psychologist or a relationship expert, but I have personally been a victim of cheating and I have suffered for years from mood swings and depression. I wish no-one else ever has to go through the same emotional trauma that I went through.
It is exactly for this reason why I want to help everyone facing this problem, and I don’t want the cost to be a barrier.
You see, I have spent literally thousands of dollars to pay experts to thoroughly research the problems faced by couples struggling with infidelity. I also hired a professional interviewer to conduct and record the interviews.
Even at a very conservative average cost of $50 per interview, the total cost of all the interviews would be well over a thousand dollars.
And this does not even include the cost of paying for research to gather the best online infidelity resources that you will have access to in your membership dashboard.
Not to forget some of the experts that I have interviewed charge anywhere from 100 to 300 dollars per hour for counseling with them. Many couples are glad to pay them because they are well worth the money and have helped thousands of couples save and strengthen their marriage.
But don’t worry; you don’t have to pay anywhere near that amount to access all the resources in your membership dashboard.
You can get the entire package and lifetime access to the membership dashboard for a one-time cost of 39 dollars.
All you need to do is to click on the ‘Add to Cart’ button just below and you will be taken to a secure order page.
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So if you feel that the resources that I have in store for you, have not helped you or your marriage in any way, I will give you a full refund without asking you any questions. And just so that you know, you will still have access to all the resources in the membership dashboard even if you ask me for a refund. This is my way of thanking you for giving it a sincere try.
So really, you have nothing to lose since the entire risk is on me. I am very confident that you will like the resource package that I have put together for you. More importantly my resource package will give you all that you would need to help to recover from infidelity and rebuild a better, stronger and more fulfilling marriage.
Imagine saving your marriage from the brink of disaster and rebuilding a better and stronger marriage with your spouse.
Imagine the freedom from mistrust, uncertainty and anxiety cluttering up your mind with fears and doubts of your spouse’s fidelity.
Imagine how it feels to kiss, hug and cuddle up with your spouse truly knowing that he or she is committed to you.
Imagine living a very happy and fulfilling marriage life with your spouse.
How would that feel? How much would it change your life?
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Act right now, and live the life you deserve.
Thank you so much for reading and I cannot wait to see you on the other side!
Rooting For Your Relationship Success & Happiness,
Kajay Williams
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